23 thoughts on “The saddest news.

  1. I can’t even imagine what you must be feeling right now. I’m so so sorry for your loss. I know that mere words are not enough to ease your pain, but know you have an ocean of support behind you. Take as much time as you need.

    1. Thank you so much. Your words mean a lot.
      I’ve been worrying about something going wrong practically from day one yet I never imagined this of all things. It’s unimaginable. Jan has been absolutely amazing and the staff at the hospital staff made a shit situation the best it could possibly be.

      1. Trust me I know that feeling. I was worried the whole time I was pregnant before the MC. I HATE that infertility does that to us. We can’t ever enjoy a pregnancy. I’m so glad you’ve got such an awesome support system in Jan. Take care of yourself.

  2. I am so very, very sorry. I am sure your sons knew just how loved they are. No words seem right at a time like this but I mean it sincerely when I say my thoughts and sympathy are with you.

  3. I am so so sorry to hear your terrible news, after all your joy. I have a small idea of how you are feeling so know nothing can make it better for you, but it will get a little easier with time. At least you have support at home from Jan (and he has you – men suffer as well, though perhaps not so openly). My heartfelt sympathies to you both.

    1. Thank you. Your words mean a lot. We are getting through it together – although he is doing most of the looking after. We are obviously both still sad but he is more okay than me. Right now every day is both harder and easier.

  4. Oh Bev, I am SO, so sorry. That is absolutely terrible and you must be feeling awful. What terrible timing to get an infection and for that to happen, especially after you were so happy! I was very excited for you. If I can do anything, please let me know. If you want a break in Southend (well, sort of!), you are welcome to come and stay. I am so sorry. I know from the experience of my sister, how hard it is and how sad you must be feeling.
    I am glad you have Jan and the health team being so brilliant. Sending you many hugs.

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